I know, and I can even understand certain people's religious beliefs making them uncomfortable with gay marriage, but there's a difference between having a church disallow gay marriage, and having the state do it.

That compulsive need to make sure that not only they, but everyone and everything else in the world adheres to a particular religious code, to legalize that religious code ... I just, I have no words able to describe how sick that makes me feel. Especially when it comes to gay marriage, which has everything to do with humanity, and love, and honestly has zero impact on straight people and their marriages.

In other words, I agree with what you've said. :)